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Ladies, a guy out there is meant to be the love of your life, your best friend, and your soul mate. That’s not nothing you can force though, forcing love or going into relationships just because you’re lonely is not good. You’re to much of a wonderful person to be sitting around waiting for the perfect guy to show up at your door step and I honestly think that’s were the problem lies. You have no idea how much you’re worth. And no I don’t mean appearances, the looks don’t matter I mean you girls as people. You don’t need to impress these guys, or try to get them to like you, you’re better than that. You don’t need any of their approval, you just need your own. You slowly set yourself back every time you get into a relationship just because.
Get into a relationship because you believe that it can go somewhere. If you believe in it, then it will be work. Wait for that guy, the right guy. You ask, how can I tell when someone likes me? How can I tell when someone is sincere? When you find someone, a true guy, you’ll know. His presence will fill the air, it will fill you. He’ll be the person to smile at you, and genuinely mean it. He’ll play around with you, but he’ll never laugh at your heart. He will make you feel beautiful. He’ll brush the hair out of your eyes, and give you those sweet soft kisses. When someone really likes you, they will show it. Remember it’s not so much about how he does it, it’s about why he does it. His sincere actions will match his words and you’ll know.
There will be those nights when you’re watching a movie, and he won’t even know what’s going on cause he’s looking at you. He’ll call to say goodnight, fall asleep with you on the phone if it makes you feel closer. He’ll look in your eyes and tell you, you’re the most beautiful girl in the world, and for the first time in your life, you’ll believe it. And don’t question him all the time about how can he love you, if he loves you accept it. If it’s the way your eyes glisten when you’re happy and the way you smile when you see him, just take it for what it’s for. Wait and you’ll see, you’ll see the beauty that comes with waiting. You’ll find your angel. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but you will. I promise. ♥
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Move on.
I’ve learned that people move on no matter what. Even if you know it or not, they do. You can’t be stuck on the past forever. How are you going to live your life when the only thing you’re thinking about is your past. It’s time to move forward and think about your future because you can’t change anything.
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IF A MAN WANTS YOU.
“Girls, please read this and take it to heart. Even though this is written to girls, it is about guys and relationships. So guys, pay attention as well.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because a man is not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend doesn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle for less. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, so why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he is more educated or has a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more and nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUES before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary. Dating is fun, even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.
I would encourage you to share this with other ladies and MEN. You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them…”
